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Break Free from Feeling Cornered by Life


Escape Bad Habits and Repeated Mistakes


Shift Out of Autopilot

You're not alone,
and change is possible.

Join this comprehensive program and
we'll teach you to master dealing with emotions and tough situations.


Get simple, real-world tools to really connect with yourself and cultivate enriching relationships.  Discover your purpose and start living from your values to enjoy a life full of meaning.  

Unlock your TrueSelf and become the person you're meant to be. 

Unlock Your TrueSelf

Enneagram Coaching Program

Which statement feels true for you?​

  • I'm stuck in the same cycles and don't know why

  • My emotions control me, not the other way around

  • My relationships are a source of stress

  • I struggle with setting boundaries

  • I often feel misunderstood and isolated

  • My life lacks direction and purpose

  • I fear I'll never reach my true potential

  • I know I can do better but don't know how

Chances are, you face more than one of these struggles.  

You are not alone!

And there is nothing wrong with you.  What if you could not only understand why these loops hold you back but also break free from them?


Working together, you will shed the self-limiting beliefs and behaviors that have been holding you back and unlock new levels of clarity and fulfillment.

By the time we get to the other side, you'll find that you have everything you need to undertake and sustain your transformative journey. You will have mastered your emotional intelligence, recoded your habitual patterns, and unlocked a life of purpose, fulfillment, and freedom.

Through this program you will...

  • Gain deep insights into your core self and unique personality type, aligning your daily actions with your deepest values.

  • Master your emotional intelligence through real-life exercises and introspective homework, moving beyond repeating bad habits and mistakes.

  • Equip yourself with practical tools to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts, getting off autopilot in your relationships.

  • Learn to set healthy boundaries and prioritize self-care, escaping that feeling of being cornered by life.

  • Engage in guided reflection and discussions, cementing what you've learned, uncovering what's still unexplored, and mapping out a promising future.

The Road to Intentional Transformation

This 12-week Unlock Your TrueSelf Coaching Program equips you with essential skills and tools, rooted in the Enneagram and modern psychology, to bring about lasting personal growth. With a focus on enhancing emotional intelligence, self-management, and relationship building, this program sets you on the fast track to a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life.

  • In our first phase, get ready to discover yourself in a whole new light. We'll dive deep into the Enneagram, giving you the key tools and strategies to kick-start your personal growth journey. By the end, you'll have a fresh lens to see yourself and the world—setting the stage for meaningful transformations ahead.

  • In Phase 2, we'll dive deep into the unique aspects of your personality type, giving you the skills to manage your habits and patterns with empowering strategies. You will begin to shape a more fulfilling life with newfound wisdom and proven, customized tools that work for you.

  • In Phase 3, you will learn to navigate the space between 'me' and 'we' by applying your improved emotional intelligence and personal growth skills to your relationships. Build more meaningful connections with new tools to balance your strengths and challenges and to put them to work for you.

  • In Phase 4, put all the pieces together and create a plan that fits your life. You'll lock in all the progress you've made, setting up a sustainable path for ongoing happiness, stronger relationships, and personal well-being.

Todd Payne
Expert Personality and Relationship Coach

This program is for you if...

  • ​You've tried traditional therapy or self-help and crave a more hands-on and results-driven approach.

  • You're yearning to understand the 'why' behind your emotions and actions.

  • You feel like you're running in place, whether it's in your personal relationships, your career, or just inside your own head.

  • You're at a crossroads in life and need a concrete strategy for moving forward with confidence and clarity.

  • You're tired of superficial fixes and are ready to commit to a program that promises lasting, transformative change.

Do you feel any of these?
Apply now to meet me and decide if you’re ready to dive in.

The work I did with Todd helped give me the courage
to step into asking for what I need and want.
He skillfully supported me and gave me new tools and strategies.
I have already made significant progress and changes
in my life for the better.

The Motivated Systems Builder | 3-7-1 SP

Jessica C.

Success Stories

Todd helped me transform one of the toughest years of my life into a period of personal growth and progress. His coaching provided me with concrete ways and practices to live a better life.

The Loyal Good Samaritan

6-2-9 SP

Zoya V.

Todd has mastered teaching the Enneagram in a way that is easy to understand and apply. I fully trust him as a life coach and look forward to working with him again.

The Moralistic Teacher

1-7-2 SX

Elise B.

I keep pinching myself to make sure this is all real. Todd gave me the confidence to step forward with assurance. I kinda wish I had some more issues to work through so that we could continue our sessions.

The Harmonizing Gentle Spirit

9-4-7 SO

Mike W.

Todd has helped me understand what motivates and inspires me,
and he has helped me understand and have empathy for friends and family in ways that make my relationships more interesting and satisfying.

The Justice Fighter

8-6-3 SP

Donna R.

Todd is an excellent coach. Instead of having the enneagram define people,he helps us see how differently we see the world, and it helps me have greater understanding and empathy for others

The Romantic Philosopher

4-6-1 SP

Mary D.

The benefits I have gained from Todd have included a deeper understanding of my personality type and how I am wired to react to certain things, but more importantly, he gave me the tools  to help me when I am dealing with difficult situations

The Investigative Researcher

5-4-1 SO

Stephen B.

"Life-changing sounds cliché...
I Feel Like I Found Life"

"A Different Way...
That Really Has Been Helpful"

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